Picked up 5D for church Sunday morning. WAW was in her down state again. I gave WAW schedule that I had made for month of Feb. She seemed a bit surprised and only asked if it was the same as we talked about. I said mostly and that I had finished up the month because we did not finish. She let me come inside and began looking for the sick cat. Then 5D finished getting ready and we let for church.
I noticed a rash on 5D's forehead that looks similar to a birthmark and had to call WAW about it. WAW went into a story about how she has been sick and taking antibotics. I reiterated to look at 5D and said I had to go.
Dropped 5D back off at WAW's. I asked if WAW was going to be home at 5:45 Monday so I can drop 5D off because I have plans at 6:00. She said yeah that should be a problem then kind of shot out, "why do you need to know what I am doing". I said, "I don't but tomorrow is my birthday and I wanted to know if you were going to be here." She said we had not talked about this yesterday and I said no, I told you I had plans last weekend. She did look at the schedule once about it. Then, after telling me why I don't need to know what she is doing, she tells me what she is going to be doing Sunday. baffling. I gave 5D hugs/kisses and left.
I get a voice mail this morning. She says 5D doesn't have her school belt and to not worry about it but she will need it tomorrow and to bring it when I drop 5D off. In my email friday and spoken to her Saturday, I told her that 5D gets to where PJ's Tuesday. So, this makes no sense. I guess it shows she is not listening to me. Then, she says, "have a Happy Birthday".
More and more, it is clear that she is really confused and best thing I can do is give her as much space as possible, as dark as I can with a 5D. By telling her, "the burden for destroying our family will be on your shoulders not mine", and giving her a schedule for 5D for month of Februrary it really got the monkey off my back. I am much more detached now. Got plans to start dancing class tonight. Looking forward to it.
