Well new dad, I would try to remember the thing that you were doing when you both realized that you loved one another and try to recreate the moment. A date, wedding whatever it was you were doing that the love bug bit you. I think that you two are both too young to give up. The best years are ahead of you with the little baby, and if you cant be lovers anymore, be friends for the childs sake and just follow your heart. Don't date or move on until YOU have exhausted your options and are ready too.