Has anyone been married to a lazy boring truck driver? Did you find them to be selfish and self-centered. I am really planning to leave my husband with the the young three kids and all. I am going thru menopause, I had two miscarriages in two years, lost my job becuase he never is home and I have no backup childcare, plus we are bankrupt, about to lose car, home, everything and only get crumbs for welfare. How emabarssing is that? I am well I thought I was an able bodied person who could think and work, take care of my self . Lately I am so exhausted from the bills, the struggle, the arguing, the lack of desire to care about ANYTHING. I just want out. If I could save more than a dime, I would have split a long time ago. All he cares about is driving; wont learn another trade or even consider another job. I am not going to be overweight, sick lonely and hurt by his cold heartness anymore. The second I get employed, I am finding my own place, and buying a reliable car. Any helpful hints?