IMHO, no surprises for valentines day. I would check first with W to see if she's ready for a card or a gift from you which is expressing your deep and heartfelt love for her. Even a small thing may seem like pressure. On the other hand she may expect something, so discreetly check to see how she feels.
Originally Posted By: steve477
One problem I see in the future is if she wants to give R another chance... she works with the OM. She cant stop seeing him, I might be able to ask that she doesnt make contact out of work ours, but is that going to intensify their R in work (that is where the adultery happen, after working late). Do I have to ask her to show me her eamils and stuff, or am I just supposed to try and trust her again?
Too early to worry about this stuff. Ultimately if she does recommit to you she will take steps to show she's genuine.
But overall things are sounding good.
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing
