Originally Posted By: Dom R
One of the toughest things about being separated after a huge marriage "bomb", is the lack of opportunity to show your spouse directly, any changes that you may have made ...

From personal experience I would strongly agree. Separation helps with perspective, but its a huge loss of DB opportunity. Besides your W is quite mentally ill and you may want to see her in this light. Would you abandon her if she were physically ill?


Me-48, W-38
M14, D11, S7
W filed D 01/07
W had to move out 06/07
Current Thread