well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[BeingMe]

Just as Limboland is not a good place to visit, and certainly not live, WhatifLand is the worst place for holidays, and one must definitely not become a citizen there, dear Cat. Stay in the now, live in the present .... the past is gone, and there is no changing it, except to learn from the mistakes, and treasure the good memories. The future is not yet created, and there are many paths it can go. Heavenly Father knows the possibilities the future holds, and that we will be fine if we put our trust in Him. Now is the time to let go of your H (who is not his true self right now), and let him decide his own fate. If he comes back to you out of his own free will, then how much more precious will that be. But, if he doesn't, then it was not meant to be, and you will be okay.

There's a quote that applies I think (not sure who said it):

“Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.”

Take care, and I hope the talk with your H goes well, and that some things get resolved.