Never Thought It Would Be Me

[SirPrizeMe]

I read an article that talked about the seesaw effect in sex relations. If one spouse is *always* on, it intimidates the other, or turns them off. They feel they can never satisfy the desire on the other end, and their confidence and self-esteem declines, and then, poof. Implosion.

Although I tend to agree with you Lin, that the problem starts within the LD spouse. . . the potential for the breakdown in desire is there, even before the seesaw effect occurs.