It is ok that you are feeling the way you are.

It is normal.

If the feelings are the same in a month from now, than you know what you have to do, than your decision is made.

Don't pressure yourself or feel you have to make any type of decision. Just take care of yourself and your children.

Most people in our shoes would have thrown the towel in long ago.

I am afraid of the day, when I say enough is enough. As time goes on that day seems inevitable. I am divorced, but my ex still tries to reconnect. I have no clue if I am even attracted to him anymore. He is handsome, but his actions disgust me also.

Hang in there and remember you are an extraordinary person...


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11