Hey, Husband. I am amazed.

You handled that with about as much integrity as I have ever seen someone do. I am a pretty straight-n-narrow kind of guy myself (even more-so than in days gone by, before I became a father), and even I don't know what I would have done -- especially with such a "dish" served up... on a silver platter.

(On the other hand, given how shell-shocked I am from my W's underhandedness, the W's cousin connection would have me thinking set-up.)

Dude, you are such a stalwart, faithful guy -- your W is nuts to not cherish that in you. I thought that's what women really want and need in a husband. Man, what is it with these WAW's?

I know I am a rookie and all -- just passed 250 days last week. But I have considered giving my W the Ultimatum; I am starting to feel that at some point I will not be able to hold out for her much longer. Frankly, I don't know how I am going to make it a year, and I keep praying to God to give me the strength.

I'm trying to learn from guys like you and Mark.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.