In my case I'm not the one who initiatied NC - he did. Earlier on, with some really good advice from this board, I sent a quick email - got NOTHING. I've left "business-realted" messages 2 times on voicemail - got NOTHING. It is pretty clear that reaching out, no matter what aout or what form, isn;t working. Is NC worjking? I don';t know. He could be having the time of his life, be hoirribly dperessed and shameful, or somehwere in between.....
