Wantlove - I don't think that NC is the answer to every situation. I did the NC thing while my ex and I were separated, and it backfired. I think it backfired in my case because one of our problems was communication.

You have to try things and figure out if they work or not in your situation. If something doesn't work, try something else. It's basically just trial and error. There is no one size fits all solution.

I am not sure what your beliefs are, but I have found great comfort in seeking God and his answers for my life. I am sorry you are going through this. I know exactly how you feel. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but things really will get better. Time is on your side. ((HUGS))


M: 29
H: 27
Married: 6/22/02
Bomb: 6/12/06
H moved out: 6/16/06
Signed D papers: 1/8/07
D final: 5/14/07