Forgot to mention that W mentionned that MIL sugested that she give her marriage a chance?????? Yes this is the same MIL that I do not like very much.
At lunch, I asked her point blank, "do you think you gave us a chance?". She seemed to loose her apetite. I told her that she knew I was committed to making our M work. I said that I had grown a great deal in the last few months and that i loved her unconditionally. I then brought up the D7 announcemnet, the fact that she wanted me out of the house, the lawyer for mediation and putting the house up for sale (which she still has not done) as steps that would truly signify the beginning of the end. I also made it clear that the D7 announcement and me moving out would be very difficult to overcome, althogh I will always have her best interest at heart and will remain her best friend. She seemed touched by this. I know that this was wrong of me to say but last night I got the feeling that W did not fully comprehend the potential repercussions (of the path we were on) to everyone involved.
