I haven't tried to get answers from him because, as so many here have been told - and suggested - he doesn't have the answers....why is it that my leaving him be is the problem here, when for others it is the solution? It is always about letting them go, just being concerned about us, and yet when I do that, it seems like I get questioned about it. What exactly am I supposed to do?!?!? I know he is alive, what else can i honestly do?