Karen,

It could be that they've had a falling out, or at least a "let's cool it for awhile." But even if they haven't, in my opinion, YOU ARE DOING GREAT, so just KEEP IT UP! The not wanting to push it, and getting up after 10 minutes was PERFECT, as is your not-being-too-available and your general positive attitude.

Make no mistake -- I DO believe in DBing, even if I believe in putting an aggressive let's-bust-the-affair on the front end of it. The GAL stuff, "no needy-grabby" -- all that stuff is spot-on. Some of us just like to prime the pump a little more aggressively at the beginning.

Paul