Wantlove, Cinders is right you are certainly different from most/ many posters here, but we are all different. I am sure I have told you before my x just walked away dispite us having 3 children togther (grown ups). It has been 5 years with no contact and it was only recently broken by me contacting him to tell him something. I have survived I took to heart the many posts made to me back in the darkest of days. I looked at myself. Quite honestly and this is meant to get you out of your woe is me stupour-why on earth would this man want to come back to you if this is your attitude to the kindest set of well meaning people you could wish to come across. Search your heart find the reason that he left you for. We all have to accept 50% of the marriage failure even those of us who truly believed we had the best of marriages.
Your stories always seem to have huge chunks missing, family relationships odd to say the least. Yu do not have to answer any questions and indeed the answers you give are dubious at times. People ask them in order to gain insight and thereby offer the best advice they can. Pearls before swine spring to mind.Yes this is very harsh and blunt but if your h is truly missing there is a reason but he is not truly missing is he because you stated he came over to collect his mail. He is just missing from your life and thats something you will not tolerate. If you truly love him let him go and work on your failings and just maybe he will get to hear that you have changed and consider some contact.
I gave up on trying to help you on your last thread but came here to see how you were doing and hoped you may have changed your attitude but no just the same. I hope you find someone who can help you at some point. I truly have no idea what you are actually lookng for.
