Dom - Thanks for the reply. I am doing well all considered. Today was slightly different when h came to visit daughter. I left him with her and went to the shops. Came back and he finished his visit but was he was trying to be polite. first time in ages. Only problem is is that last time he was like that he dropped the D bombshell the next day in c. But today i did not pursue him and he started to ask questions about my new job and where i was going this afternoon etc. We left the house together and he waited for me to look at him so he could wave before he left - usually he just drives off. I know that all of this does not mean much, if anything at all but we are suppossed to look for the small changes.
Tomorrow is a big day in c. c asked h to identify if there is anything worth saving in our m let's see what he has to say.
