My H has had moments where he can't spend even a few minutes with my daughter and I without extreme difficulty. He wants to rush and go text the OW. It's sad really. I'm hoping at some point that he gets over that, he seems miserable, so I do hope he is going to get to the point where he realizes that he isn't happy and then will make the changes in his life that he needs to. He is seeing a counselor also, so hopefully the counselor can help him see this as well. I surprisingly actually feel kind of sorry for him at this point, which I would not have expected to have felt, but he did bring this on himself of course.
