I'm glad I'm getting this type of feedback because eventhough the temptation is there to fill the emptiness as well as get some revenge, it is not the path I want to take because what would I tell my daughter?
I was at a playground today with my daughter and I noticed an attractive mother sitting there while her son was playing. Yes, she was pretty, but HONESTLY I got really, really sad. I just sat there and thought, "Who the Hell picks up on married people?" That is just plain wrong. It made me realize I just wouldn't be able to do that to myself or someone else.
Thanks for validating the temptation as well as the knowledge that it would be a really, really bad move.