Thought I'd stop by for a quick visit . . . When I checked out a dating site (just curiosity about who's looking. .) I became more determined to make my M work. My H is a catch in my eyes and no one out there had even a teeny bit of appeal for me.
I started with that mentality yesterday morning, but as W wore on me more and more throughout the day, I started to get more curious. Ironically, the more time I spend with my W at the moment, the less 'appealing' she is to me - I think the whole OM thing is starting to get a little ridiculous to me. Not sure if this makes sense or not - I still love my W very much, but i'm really starting to lose my respect for her. She's compromising her values and everything that made her special to make this idiot like her.
Originally Posted By: seekpeaceofmind
But I live in a rural area so the odds are smaller and I never liked dating anyway. Finding more friends to hang out and do things with is a good goal for any of us. Social connections are really critical to happiness. The well-adjusted, healthy ones I mean!
Right now I'm more inclined to find myself some friends to hang out with and go places - I obviously have some already, but none of them really 'energize' me. I think some new faces will help do that.
