Originally Posted By: mcojh

Personally, I want to be able to tell my boys that I a)stood up for my marriage and did what I could to save it. b)I honored my vows, even after separation and while the D progressed through court.



Yeah, you can't "un-ring" a bell. Once you do the deed, it's done. And, yes, I can look at my kids and tell them I stood strong for our family and I have never cheated on their mother. No "dating" until it's final.

Originally Posted By: mcojh

I will admit to having a new fascination with women's left ring finger. I guess I just need to see what is out there.


Yes, I agree. While in the past my... uh... attention was elsewhere when spying an attractive woman, I now seem to be focused on that left hand instead of .... um, other places... ;\)

We men are pigs, aren't we....?


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9