Wantlove, What do you want in the way of support from those who have little or no contact? I'm one of those who has very little, if any contact w/my former spouse?
The few times that I posted to you, you gave me the impression that you didn't want me to post to you. So, tell me exactly what you are looking for in the way of support and I just might be able to assist you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.