....6 months, and still nothing - not a word. I;ve ben lurking but get SO tired of all of the posts about H talking, even spewing, reaching out, when I would KILL for ANYTHING.....Consider yourselves lucky.....
I needed a break from everyone elses "problems" about trying NC - I don;t have a choice.....
wl, I can relate. The only reason I have interaction with my W is the fact that we have 3 children. She doesn't hardly talk to me, yell at me or anything. It has been this way for the past two months.
It is possible your H cannot handle seeing or talking to you. I know that the concern you probably have is that he no longer cares.
What are you doing for you right now?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
Everything has been exaqctly the same for 6 months -0 no kids, no reason to talk, or communicate at al. I wish there was some support on this board for this situation. In all honesty, I can't find much sympathy for those who are in contact with spouses. It sounds cold, but it is true.
No offesne, but please stop with the questions about what I am doing. I'm doing so much, but what I really want is some suppoort/input from folks who have NO CONTACT, tough to find here. I don;t mean to sound b*tchy, but it seems like very very few are in this situation, and I need some advice from that perspective.
I know this probably doesn't help much but I have read positive stories from different sources that have had absolutely no contact for a long period of time. I get testimonials from CharlyneCares that people share this frustration of NC. Plus I know that I have read other posters that have not had contact for a long period and are now piecing. I need to do a search.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
Wantlove, What do you want in the way of support from those who have little or no contact? I'm one of those who has very little, if any contact w/my former spouse?
The few times that I posted to you, you gave me the impression that you didn't want me to post to you. So, tell me exactly what you are looking for in the way of support and I just might be able to assist you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
