wl, I can relate. The only reason I have interaction with my W is the fact that we have 3 children. She doesn't hardly talk to me, yell at me or anything. It has been this way for the past two months.
It is possible your H cannot handle seeing or talking to you. I know that the concern you probably have is that he no longer cares.
What are you doing for you right now?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God