Wow is that timing or what. You go to church and message is about families and restoring damaged R's. Hopefully she's started rethinking but try not to read too much into her actions. Let her lead the way on R talks and just listen and try to understand her point of view.
My W has said that we could work on our R and get it back again, but it would go back to where we are again. She's afraid to try. She doesn't think changes I'm making in myself aren't permanent, only to get her back. How can you reassure them?
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26