I agree with Mark. Once you open that can of worms it can't be put back. If your relationship is beyond repair and you divorce then feel free to date. Dating while married is always more problems than its worth.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates