I posted earlier today I have a good story about my anniversary of 7 years. It was on Dec 9th which just happens to be the birthday of my daughter as well. Well, he insisted coming to our home to celebrate her bday with his dad and sister just as if everything was ok. It was 20 days after he left us and I then was really mad and I would have killed him if he had come to our house. My psycologist and the kids psycologist had to talk him out of it because they felt it was too soon to play happy family and expect me to be friendly and polite. He just couldn't get it.
So Christmas, New Years, namedays, I just tried to put it on hold. I have promised myself that next year I'll throw a huge reconcil party on our anniversary. You are all invited. Valentines will have to wait too.
I believe each has to do what he feels is right and will take him closer to his goal. Maybe for some of us is a chance to show how we feel. Maybe some of our spouses will consider it as an opportunity to admit their mistake. Who knows?
