Hey, this is a question I have eventhough I know that having an affair as a response to your partner's affair is the wrong thing to do.

However, I can't say I haven't been VERY tempted to have myself a fling. I haven't up to now and I'm not planning on doing it, but I'm wondering if anyone out there has had the same thoughts or even had an affair after their partner had one.

I would like to know that this is a normal thing I'm processing eventhough I know it isn't the healthy alternative.


M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08