I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

I wrote this email today and I have not sent it, would sending it be the biggest mistake ever?

I know you don't like to talk so I thought I would communicate with you this way, that way you won't have me staring at you for an answer. If you want to answer this email, that would be wonderful. If you don't I guess I can at least say I tried, I won't ask you about it I will just wait for a reply if there is one.

I have a couple of things to talk about. First how are you? Are you doing OK?

Second, as you know I have been trying to make changes in my behaviour that may have a negative effect on our marriage. Are these changes helping, and do you have other concerns that have not been brought up yet?

Third, do you want to back to see Joan again? Do you think it is helping?

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Joan is our counsellor