Our family friend did come and take us out to breakfast today. He is such a wonderful man, very thoughtful and caring. I asked him how the ow was when he met her. He thought about it and said his wife would tell him to tell me something to make me feel better, but he wanted to be honest with me, not to try and make me feel bad, but he was very impressed with her. He said she was really very nice and very attentive to my kids. He did say that he realized some of that was probably for show but that it should comfort me a little that she was kind to my girls. I understand that and I am glad she is not mean to them. But still.
To this, I have to say........he is a man and men don't and CAN'T see women as another woman can !!!!!! If you know what I mean ?! I think you could get a more honest and ACCURATE opinion from a woman friend !
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I have also decided to try and not compare myself to ow. She might look like a movie star (per D9), have loads of cash, a great job and be really nice. (why can't she be the typical cow of an ow??????)
sweety she could be the QUEEN of sweetness and compassion and love and sexyness and WHATEVER, so long as your H has a crisis, it does not matter what she is, for she is just being 'used' as a part of the crisis...she is not important in this...
I know it's hard to see that, I often struggle with it too..but really Shades, we are moms and love our children and H's so very much ! I think loving means setting free...that is TRUE love...
Take care and by the way, those pancakes sound so YUMMY !!!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
