She told me that she was beginning to feel close to me again and feel positive and then I hurt her with that interaction. I violated her and she no longer trusts me and is no longer in love with me.
My knee jerk here is that this is BS and she's looking for excuses and ways to blame you. Sometimes I think they harbor so much guilt that this is the only way they can survive.
It reminds me of the "I was drunk/high" excuse some would use after having sex. Afterall, to admit we just did what we did b/c it seemed like a good idea at the time requires us to shoulder responsibility. Something as a culture we aren't good at. Hang in there.
