She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

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Yes, these are positive, I caution you though, don't try to guess what she is thinking, or if she's disconnected. Right, don't overthink.

In my sitch, I always saw the biggest changes in my W, I always saw her come closer, the more I detached. Counterintuitive, but true. When I stopped thinking about her, what she was doing, what she was feeling and thinking, then I was able to better be myself, to better GAL, and then she would call, or do something to move toward me.

Really, don't try to guess what an email, or her words or anything she does might really mean.