Everyone here looks back with regret, wishes they had done some things differently, taken action sooner...
Instead of running away from this, we've all chosen to work towards becoming people that we are prouder of, people who make choices that our future selves will not regret. Our spouses could also make this same choice and some of the choose to eventually, especially with our good example.
We are all totally awesome!
(dated slang, I know - even 'slang' is dated, but what can you do?)