Reading something on another thread, about comparisons to the other person.... I remember a long while ago, maybe a year ago, while I was still in the house, my wife yelling at me, screaming at me, that I should just stop comparing myself to the OM.

It was surreal, because I wasn't thinking of the OM at all.

I know she suffers. Once in therapy she said she couldn't understand it - I was better looking, more reliable, more honest, etc.

The professionals in the mental health field have a word for people who have affairs with losers: Nuts!


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....