Mojo, why are you saying he assisted you in having orgasms? I'm assuming you had a "hand" in it, and could just as easily have had them without him?
It is true that I don't require a man in order to get an orgasm. However, I do yearn (suggested by Deida and more accurate than "want" or "need") for "affectionate man-handling" because it makes it about a bajillion times better. I don't know why exactly this is true and I don't need to know why exactly this is true anymore than somebody needs to figure out why they prefer high thread count sheets and chocolate over a bare mattress and some canned beans. All I need to concern myself with is how I can "afford" it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
