In my case I let my own fear .... take over when I should have been proactive about dealing with what was in front of me.
I am 100% guilty of this one. W was in MLC over a year before the bomb but it really started to show (come to a head)about 3 months before the bomb. However, rather than doing something about it, I sat there with my thumb up my butt hoping that it would solve itself. W even said at that time that she thought we should go to MC but I left it to her to organize and we never did go.
Grace, I'm confused about something. What did your H actually say to you? ILYBINILWY? Does her say that he wants a D? I only ask because it seems odd that that not only has he not moved out but he even sleeps in the same bed. Is it a show for your kids or is he afraid to commit? His actions seem to point to a lot of confusion in him.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
