I'm with you on this one.
Just get Christmas and New Year's out the way and up comes Valentine's.
In many ways I'm finding this more difficult to contemplate than the other two....and we still have about three weeks to go.

I'm seriously thinking, the first time in my married life, about doing nothing at all for the 14th. I'll probably cave in about two days before or else I'll be accused of not fighting enough to win back W.

Easter hols after that.

The only way I try dealing with it at the moment is to attempt to shove it all to the back of my mind and know it will all turn out okay in the end. Probably not a very healthy way of dealing with it.

Last edited by betteroffvsmost; 01/27/08 03:24 PM.
Me 44
W 39
M 10yrs (together 13 years)
one D 8
ILYBINILWY Feb 2007
Separated - 5th September 07

Will get there in the end.
Will get there in the end 2.