A,

You're right, I would never behave that way. I would never want someone who is so uninvovled with his children. I want someone who is a great dad and enjoys doing things with his kids. My girls said ow made cookies (slice and bake) with them this week while their dad watched TV. I guess some things never change. I feel that his time here with them is so little that he should be engaged with them while he is here. Not letting ow do it.

A couple of our friends that has known us (me & STBX) for a very, very long time say that he was always this way and that I just didn't see it before. I was too concerned with making everything okay. No more.

Love,
Shades