Real Growing and Healing 2

[saffie]

You know Frank, I stopped posting to you for a while because you seemed to 'know' everything, but I still read your posts and the replies. Nothing seems to change. You get caught up in the minute details of it all but seem to not move on or achieve much. Here you are still banging on about the W and wrongs done to you in the past by her and by others in business.

Whilst I can understand the injustice in all this, it really is not helping you deal with the things you need to focus on.

Frank, when are you going to stand still and stop reacting in a frightened way and start focusing on the job in hand - namely saving Frank? At the moment you seem hell bent on the destruction of Frank.

Why even bother about what you are going to reply to the person asking you about a long lost relative. Why think about what effect the person they are contacting you about had on your life. Your reply is likely to only cause misery on both sides. you have got to learn to let go and move on.