I forgot to mention something interesting earlier. As we were driving to dinner lastnight we passed a candy shop. D10 said to H isn't that where you always get Mommy's presents? H said sometimes. D mentioned that Valentines Day is coming up. At this point I wanted to jump out of the car. H said I will be out of town that day. Then H asked when it is as he didn't realize that it is always on the 14th. H then realized that he will be in town. UGH! I felt bad about it because who knows what the heck that day will be like. I know it is 3 weeks away, but I'm dreading that day already. I guess I'll have to buy a variety of cards since I don't know for sure what is appropriate to give to H.