In the end it is going to be your decision of course. If you decide to pursue a relationship just be sure that you take everything you've learned while going through this and do things the right way - i.e., let H know before taking things to the next level.
One thing I would recommend is that you take validation from the feelings this guy has stirred in you. You ARE pretty. You ARE desirable. Your sitch has left you doubting these things but you have now been given your proof. Take this proof and use it to boost your PMA and self-esteem. I have done the same.
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