MM, I'm really sorry about all the anger issues, I can really relate. I had become a bit of a bitter jackass over the last few years. Thing was I masked it with this cynical humor and optimism.
It's good to hear you've found the root cause of your anger. Now you can deal with it and turn it all around. Clearly he's avoiding addressing his own and probably because he fears what he'll find. Remember introspection and self examination are very difficult things to do. We fear what we'll find which is really we want to avoid facing the truth that we are not perfect, that we might be wrong, that we might be selfish.
Bottom line here is we let fear control us. Once we do we get angry, bitter, frustrated, resentful and all those other negative feelings. Sure we are human and we'll feel those emotions from time to time but when we let them control us we've started down the bad path.
Remember this, Faith is the opposite of fear. Have faith in yourself, in life, in others and in God and you'll find all this stuff is a lot easier to deal with.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
