I am sorry about the situation with your wife. Maybe it is a lot harder for women to take the low drive spouse thing when it is the man with the LD. We women we trained for years and years knowing the man is the horn dog. Men always want sex and they think about it all the time. To tell you the truth that is true to this day. EVERY man I know thinks about sex and still wants it. It don't matter if they are 2o, 40 or 50. So it feels very alone to have a LD spouse that is male. A lot harder to accept. A lot more thinking that goes into this. I believe the woman starts to wonder what the heck is wrong with her. She tries to make so many changes and when that doesn't work she starts to think if he don't want me who in the world ever would. Like maybe I have converted this male species to be the opposite to what he is supposed to be something must be wrong with me.
That is where this flirting is lifting my spirits. I am 36 and he is 26. We work with young women and women my age. HHe could be flirting with a lot of people. But he chose me. That is the reason behind some of my tears lately. I am starting to think for the first time in a long time, Hey maybe I am pretty. Maybe I am desirable.
