Believing thanks so much for your reply. I guess you can understand how you feel having a low drive husband then he has the affair. I can't even begin to describe what this has done to my self esteem. As sick as it sounds the flirting is helping with that.
I know some more have chimed in and said they think flirting is wrong. I know in a way it is. But I do think there is a line that shouldn't be crosssed. I am going to call around to counselors also this week. I think I need to see one. I have changed so much through this ordeal. Some things I have changed are great! But there is things that have changed me for the worse. Like trust issues, low self esteem, etc.
This weekend I did do a GAL activity. I have stopped doing that for awhile. I went out till very late with a good friend of mine. Oh my word we had so much fun together. It did a lot to help my moral. Even though I was tired as heck the next day. I don't do that very often at all. I can tell why. lol
