Hi Jenny! Don't worry if you don't get to stop by and check up on me that often. I don't have a baby to take care of like you do.

I do believe that there is still hope for you and your H. Unfortunately it will be awhile....he has to come back from his alien ship first and realize that the CFB is that and not the stong woman that you are.

Shame on your H's mom. My MIL has been sympathetic to me and made statements like H is just like his father. (Father was absent a lot and they have been M over 30 years but not happily.) In our last convo. she was this and then said of poor H. I wanted to say hello...he is making the choice not to live at home and work on the R. So I guess no matter what they do their moms will support them in the end.

I also get the worrying about the convo on Monday and if he will bring legal papers. In Nov. I asked H to give it 3 months before he took any legal action. That time will be up in two weeks so I'm just holding my breath. We are in a better place than we were then....but you never know. He11, I didn't know H was unhappy for so many words.

I too miss my friend although I do see glimmers of him coming back. I can't get out of my head though that in the summer H told me CFB was his best friend.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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