Thanks, Aud. Some days are great, some days are good, and some days are not so good. Fortunately, more days are in teh good and great category. That helps me to deal with the not so good days.
The other day, we had a setback. I got suspicious about somethign. So I called H at work and asked him point blank. I based these suspicions on something that was made up in my head. It wasn't like I had found something or anything. Anyway, I told him what was going through my head and the scenerio I had created.
We talked about it for about 5 minutes and I felt better. The only thing that bothers me is that he had a hard time understanding why I think or feel the way I do. He just wants it to all be over... with no setbacks. He wants me to automatically trust him and never have moments of suspicion -- even though he has done SO much to break the trust.
So, I said to him that I wished he could empathize with me... and try to put himself in my shoes when I react a certain way.
He is having trouble with empathy.
Otherwise, we've had a good weekend. He's going away this week frmo Monday till Thursday. Then again next Sunday to Tuesday. Then the following week from Sunday to Thursday. So, he's traveling LOTS over the next few weeks. But I'm okay with it becuase space tends to be good for us.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
