When he picked up the kids earlier yesterday, he looked as if he was still sleeping. I offered a coffee and he gladly accepted. He asked if I had gone to the party and mentioned he has been feeling very tired lately. Friendy talk, nothing much, nothing important. I guess the fact that he was willing and feels comfortable enough to stay for a coffee is important. But I am getting bored with these friendly interactions. Interesting thing I have't mentioned : we never have psycical contact of any kind. Not a hello hug, not a kiss on the chick, nothing.
Sounds like your H is depressed. Is he seeing a therapist? If not he probably needs to. As for the no contact. That sounds like you are talking about my H. H will play will my breast but that is the only thing...no kisses, hugs, nothing else. Enjoy your Sunday. I know you can probably use the break.