Sox, Keep the positives going. Think about how your actions are impacting your h's actions. In other words, he has been doing those nice things for you. Have you been more loving towards him lately? In other words, make a mental note of what you're doing and what he's diong to create this positive atmosphere. That's how you can keep the positives going.
I would DIE if my H folded laundry.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track