CL, Detachment is also doing things for you. It's focusing on making yourself healthy and not focusing on how to fix your W. And that is exactly what you're doing.
You're right... she can say or think what she wants. It's up to you to decide what you are willing to tolerate. If she speaks to you in a way that you feel is disrespectful, then tell her that. Stand up for yourself. You are a WONDERFUL man. And as long as you remember that, you will not allow yourself to be put down.
I believe her respect for you will grow stronger as a result.
Keep up the good work!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
