Helloooo...Smoother Ride....Where Are You???

[Yoyowife]

(((((Sue)))))
I'm so sorry. He does not deserve you. I know you love the man that he once was, but he is no longer that man. He is now a selfish jacka$$. I've been guilty of hanging on too long also. Why do we do this to ourselves? Because we love our families and want what is best for them, but it's not the best for us or our children when we allow them to disrespect us like this by stringing us along. I think we are also afraid of being alone, but like you said we can't live the rest of our lives walking on eggshells.

Your H has cheated on you twice. Would he do it again? Is he a serial adulterer? Who knows, but those are some questions you have to ask yourself. Right now he is no good for you and your precious DD. He has to make some serious changes, and at this time it doesn't look like he is headed in that direction.

I'm so guilty of letting my H cake eat, but I have to resolve to be stronger, so please don't think I'm trying to pass any judgement on you. I'm just saying I know how painful it is with all of the flip-flopping.

My thoughts and prayers are with your and your little angel. You are a wonderful person who has given her all to fight for her family.

Hugs,