Thanks choc. Just don't know what to do now. Feel like I should ask her to dinner or something, but am thinking more of just letting it be. After all, I'm taking care of myself, doing new things that make me happy, and generally living life. She's the one who needs to sort things out and figure out the priorities and if involving me in her life is a priority, then I will hear from her. Otherwise, she hasn't done anything to show me that she's really willing to leave OM behind and re-commit to our M.